Dating Profile Of The Week for May 1, 2017

Lately, I've been remiss in sharing interesting dating profiles I've come across.  I've been busy meeting the strange and freaky, as well as engaging in real life.  While I've gathered a few profiles that are laughable (which I'll share at some point), this one popped up today and really struck a chord.

On Plenty of Fish, RVA5025 (Natalie) devotes a sizable chunk of her profile to demeaning other women who she sees as inferior to herself.

She writes:

I get that there are many women whose idea of "flirting" is texting naked and suggestive pictures to you. I get that a large percentage of women you've met will go home with you before knowing your last name, and if not on the first date, certainly by the second or third. This is not me. 

That doesn't make me a prude or a woman who doesn't enjoy intimacy. That makes me a woman with self-respect and standards. I know that's rare these days...

I'm going full off the cuff on this one, kids, and remove what little filter I possess.  The first thing I thought, when reading this was 'you stupid, judgmental, closed minded, ignorant bitch'.  Seriously, you're looking down your nose at other women for something you obviously have zero clue about.

Women don't have sex with a guy on the first or second date because they lack self-respect or possess low standards.  They do it because they want to be fucked!  A woman can do that because she controls her body and has the power to do with it as she sees fit.  When she has needs, she has the option to fuck whoever she wants and still look at herself in the mirror.  I'm so sick of slut shaming by the ignorant.

She's not the first woman I've encountered with this same point of view.  The kind who considers sex as a reward for sticking with them through a certain period of time.  'You're a good boy and have proven yourself worthy by tolerating me, despite how bitchy and humorless I am.  You may put your penis inside me.  But please take a shower first and don't even think of putting that thing near my mouth.'  This attitude wasn't uncommon when I was in my 20's, but if a woman reaches her forties and nothing's changed, she's got some issues.  I haven't encountered very many women in their forties who don't want sex a lot.  In any case, you know damned well sex with this chick will be horrible.

A former fwb, who was a devout Muslim, had the same viewpoint, when it came to sleeping with men she was dating.  She even came up with a points system to prevent sleeping with a guy too early.  I told her that no matter what hurdles she put up, it didn't matter.  Just because the guy stayed with you until he met the points quota doesn't mean he won't disappear the morning after he fucks you.  Furthermore, some guys enjoy a challenge, meaning they'll stick it out, just to get what they want. Conversely, fucking a guy on the first or second date has almost no bearing on whether the relationship will last.

I'm done with my tirade now...