Because I'm a left leaning conservative gun owner, I frequently encounter those who are, shall we say, misinformed on the subject of firearms. This will be a quick one.
First, understand those of us who identify as shooting enthusiasts aren't the dangerous ones. The data that I've digested suggests that those most likely to commit crimes are younger, haven't owned their guns long (or legally), and typically only own one or two.
It would follow that those gun owners who are least likely to commit crimes with them have owned their guns longer term, have multiples, and are over 30. We understand the consequences of pulling the trigger; the finality. That makes us more placid and will cause us to walk away from an encounter, rather than escalate it. We also recognize that pulling the trigger will cost us $100k in attorney's fees because we will be charged with 2nd degree murder, even if it's ultimately dropped. If a situation is obvious (i.e. you've got 5 dead ninjas laying by you, all swords drawn), a charge might be avoided, but we'll still have to pay an attorney until the DA declines to prosecute.
Besides, do you think the ones who openly admit to owning guns are the ones committing crimes?
So, if we gun owners get a bit snippy on social media, it's because we're sick and tired of having fingers pointed at us, when we're not the ones pulling triggers on innocents.
Concealed Carry
First, I recognize the likelihood of having to use my gun for personal defense or in defense of others is slim to infinitesimal, but it's not zero. So, just like I keep a spare tire and flashlight in my car, I carry a gun, pretty much everywhere I go. It's a tool, that may be required under a very specific set of circumstances. It remains properly concealed at all times. Honestly, carrying a gun is a nonevent for most of us.
Despite my gun always remaining concealed, wearing one makes me feel good, in the same way women feel when they wear nice lingerie. Hear me out... Most of my carry guns are custom built to my specifications, as are my leather holsters. They're works of art. So, even though no one will see how nice my equipment is, I feel a sense of pride carrying custom guns.
I will admit that more than a few law abiding gun owners are a bit overzealous, LARP training and thinking they need a conceal carry gun with a light, red dot, and 29 round capacity. In my opinion, they're harmless, even if they're training for a fantasy.
Most gun enthusiasts, including myself, consider open carry to be just dumb. First, it makes you a target for the real criminals, who simply have to wait for your attention to be focused elsewhere to swipe it out of your holster, and maybe use it on you. I've seen multiple videos of just this happening. Second, open carry freaks people out, including some of us gun owners. So, if you think open carry is objectionable, know that true shooters look down on the practice too. The only time the practice is acceptable is when you're in the wilderness and may encounter bears that view you as a snack.
The Time I Pulled My Gun
Sometimes, the act of pulling your gun can diffuse a situation and take the menace out of someone who would do you harm, were you unarmed. Because these events are rarely reported, solid data doesn't exist on frequency. I've heard anywhere from 5k-500k times each year. Here's my story.
My (now ex) wife's ex husband was a truly evil individual, who caused not just stress in our household, but outright fear. He did time for armed robbery, had been a junky, and allegedly killed two people; he was a sociopath of the highest order. He always wanted more time with his son, but always spent it doing nothing with him, preventing the boy from spending time with friends or participating in anything, really. He would harass my wife any way he could think of, such as the time he smashed in our bedroom window, while I was traveling. He knew I was a competitive shooter, so he'd harass me from afar, like the one night he was so militant about it that he was ultimately convicted for harassment. But he was super savvy in working the system, so he'd get away with most of his shitty behavior. Finally, he'd done something really bad that I won't get into, but he was convicted of child endangerment and was subject to a PFA; no closer than 500 yards for any and all of my family. This was in effect when my stepdaughter came running back to the house one morning, in tears because asshat was stalking her to her bus stop. He clearly didn't realize I was still home. After him repeatedly evading punishment, I'd had enough. I jumped in the car, backed it out of the garage, and discovered he was literally right across the street. I pulled my car level with his and pointed my gun at him. After likely soiling himself (his face was a combination of surprise and pure terror), he hauled ass out of there and never bothered us again. If he reported me, he'd also be admitting to violating the PFA (a felony) and driving on a suspended license, so I knew I was in the clear. The cops and DA hated him so badly that I wouldn't have been charged anyway. You can argue what I did wasn't the right thing, but you'd be wrong.
And finally...
Why Do You Need to Carry a Gun?
Those who make this challenge to you will invariably find your reasons to be insufficient for them and are universally anti-gun. I'm confident I speak for most shooters when I say I refuse to subject myself to judgment from someone with an agenda, yet has never actually shot a gun. Their opinion of me is inconsequential. Furthermore, it's ludicrous to challenge someone as to why they engage in a behavior that's legal for them to do so. Therefore, I will never respond to this question. If pushed, my answer will be "fuck you".
This entry is part of my "Gun Series" that focuses on providing insight into the gun debate and gun violence. You can find the other entries in the series
HERE.
About the author: Sean R is a recovering conservative who owns a consulting firm specializing in strategic marketing. He's been a competitive shooter since the early 90's and holds a High Master classification in PPC and a Master classification in USPSA. Additionally, he's served as an instructor for gun safety and competition courses. He lives in Raleigh, North Carolina with his overly vocal white dog, Sadie.